Divorce is a challenging and emotionally taxing process, and it’s natural to seek comfort or a fresh start in a new relationship. However, if you’re going through a divorce in New Jersey, dating before your divorce is finalized can have serious implications.
New Jersey courts consider marital conduct when making decisions about alimony, child custody and asset division. This means that dating during divorce proceedings could negatively impact your case. There are compelling legal and practical reasons to hold off on dating until your divorce is finalized.
Impacts on child custody and parenting time
One of the most sensitive areas affected by dating during divorce is child custody. Introducing a new partner—particularly early in the process—can be viewed as destabilizing for children.
Courts may question whether your focus is divided or whether your new relationship creates a less stable or inappropriate environment for your kids. If your new partner has a problematic background or if you begin cohabiting before the divorce is final, it may complicate your custody arrangement.
Financial consequences and alimony concerns
Even in no-fault divorces, financial decisions like alimony and equitable distribution of assets can be indirectly influenced by your romantic involvement. For example, if you’re spending marital funds on a new partner, this can be seen as a dissipation of marital assets.
Your ex-spouse could argue that you unfairly used shared resources. Moreover, if it appears you’re living with a new partner and benefiting financially from the arrangement, the court may reduce or deny alimony.
Waiting until your divorce is finalized is often the wisest path, but it’s natural to give in to a new relationship at the tail-end of your divorce. Suppose this is your current predicament; dedicated legal guidance can help you mitigate any potential implications.
